I used to be extremely shy & quiet. Had a lot of fear of approaching women. I didn't understand the opportunities that was open to me when it came from women. When I had some luck & dated a couple women, they eventually broke up with me, and later to found out they each immediately slept with some other guy they were attracted to.
I couldn't take it anymore & decided to make a major change in my life!
I dedicated enormous amount of hours of talking to women, day & night. It took me several years to discover & develop a way to be completely honest with myself, and build genuine attraction to women.
I found a lot of answers I was looking for, including a lot of results. More importantly, it build a strong passion of mine to connect with women.