Lots of men had this problem of conversation roadblocks. When you’re interacting with a woman, then all the sudden you’re mind goes blank & can’t come up with anything to say.
Learning how to keep the conversation smooth will help you calibrate well during the interaction. Being aware will also recover & reduce those awkward little moments. You should keep the conversation fun for the both of you, and be enthusiastic
Be genuine. Women are good at knowing your intentions. So, if you’re trying to think too much of what to say without any expression or emotion, then she will feel that you’re trying to say something scripted, and that’s not good. Speak how you feel.
Be real & don’t filter
A lot of times, men are afraid to say things to a woman that might lead to a negative outcome. First of all, you shouldn’t focus on the outcome, instead, focus on the present moment. Filtering topics or opinions will not move forward to a genuine connection for the both of you.
Of course, you don’t want to insult the woman & judge her as a person in any negative way. Instead, you can tease her behavior. Keep it playful.
Don’t be afraid to challenge her. This comes in several ways, but the general rule is don’t always agree with her just because you want her to like you. You don’t have to agree with her opinions but learn to understand her beliefs.
Using current situation & environment
I know this isn’t flashy, but it helps. Asking questions such as what was she doing or what does she do for fun, but has to come naturally when the conversation leads to them to ask. In my workshops, I teach in a more advance structure to identify these behaviors, and understand & communicate with women. However, for starters, whatever she’s telling you that leads you to be curious about, then ask her. Then, share each others stories while building comfort.
Make statements. Asking questions out of genuine curiosity is great but making statements are powerful. Whatever she’s doing or how she looks, make a statement. It demonstrates you’re unafraid of what she thinks of you, which is an attractive quality.
Be aware of your surroundings. Share funny stories that relates to a nearby environmental attraction.
Be a good listener
Most men don’t pay attention to women very well because they’re not relaxed, and worry what to say next that will hopefully keep the woman engaged. Focus what she’s telling you to pick up certain leads for you to ask a question or share a story, and follow with a statement.
If you can listen to your close friend very well & just talk about anything, then you can do the same with the woman you just met. Besides, most of time, any lead that she’s giving you in the conversation is more fun to go forward & talk more about than something you plan to say that is off the topic.
Really feel that you want to talk to women
To build authentic attraction while talking to a woman, you want to feel like exchanging each others’ positive energies as a healing. It will encourage you to say or ask the right things for her to share her stories with you. Whenever I talk to a woman I see myself giving her a gift of a fun & positive energy, and make her day. A gift of value.